2 Samuel 14:1-15:22 + John 18:1-24 + Psalm 119:97-112 + Proverbs 16:8-9
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Old Testament – Well.. this is a tough couple of chapters to read today! On one hand we see David showing much grace to Absalom and meanwhile Absalom is plotting to rebel against his father and then does so! At first glance it makes me wonder what on earth was David thinking? Why did he bring Absalom back to Jerusalem? But, I believe David was doing the right thing. Absalom was his son. David was trying to restore that relationship. I think about this with people in my life who have maybe “stung” me in some way. On the one hand I want to write them off – believing that they will sting me again. And maybe they will… but, I don’t think writing people off is healthy ultimately for me and I don’t think it is the right thing to do. I think showing grace, forgiveness and compassion is the right thing to do. I think David did this – and then he wisely got out of town when he realized Absalom was up to no good! So, he didn’t completely let Absalom walk all over him. He still used wisdom. I don’t know… this is a tough couple of chapters. What do you think? Did David do the right thing by bringing Absalom back to Jerusalem? Do you see any parallels in your life where someone has stung you – and then perhaps stung you again? Was it still maybe the right thing to do to show them grace and forgiveness? And maybe even to do so again? Below is twentieth century Russian painter Marc Chagall’s “David and Absalom” from today’s readings in 2 Samuel 14:33 – “So Joab came to the king, and told him; and when he called for Absalom, he came to the king, and bowed himself on his face to the ground before the king: and the king kissed Absalom.”

Bible.org’s commentary on today’s Second Samuel readings titled “Absalom” is at this link.
New Testament – Sad to see this parallel… David was betrayed by Absalom in today’s readings and Jesus was betrayed by Judas… David kissed Absalom, his betrayer. Judas kissed Jesus to betray Him. Seems that betrayal has been a part of our human condition for maybe all time? Well, since the Fall to be sure, which is pretty much all time for us humans… (you’ll recall just after the Fall Cain murdered Abel – yet another betrayal… ) Do betrayals continue today? Why do you think this is? What can free us from betraying each other? Or should I ask Whom can free us from betraying each other? Below is the nineteenth century “The Judas Kiss” by French artist Gustave Dore:

Bible.org’s commentary on today’s John readings titled “Jesus, Lord at Thy Death” is at this link and “Did Jesus take the Fifth Amendment?” is at this link.

Psalms – Psalm 119 verse 105 is one of my favorite verses in the Bible! “Your word is a lamp for my feet and a light for my path.” Do you believe God’s Word, the Bible, is a lamp for your feet? A light for your path? To help put this in perspective – without God’s Word, the Bible, is it possible that we would have no lamp for our feet? No light for our paths? That we’d essentially be groping in the darkness without God’s Word, the Bible?

Verse 111 wow… “Your decrees are my treasure; they are truly my heart’s delight.” What is your treasure? Where is your treasure? Is God’s Word, the Bible, truly your heart’s delight?

Proverbs – Proverbs 16 verse 9 is one of those seemingly simple Proverbs, that I think has a lot more depth to it than first glance: “We can make our plans, but the LORD determines our steps.” Do you think this is true? We make our plans – but God determines our steps. Do you see this to be true in your own life? Have you made plans before, but then seen your steps somehow be guided in perhaps a different direction – perhaps a more godly direction? And then do you realize that it was God determining your steps? I have experienced this in my life – thankfully. I have made some interesting (i.e. bad) plans in my life in the past – and probably am still making some bad plans even today. But, I am trying to pray regularly to God to “lead me.” I want God to determine my steps – and truly, I want God to determine my plans as well. But, if God’s plan is not immediately clear for my life, I do believe he gives wisdom to discern direction – and then ultimately I believe God will determine our steps. Thank goodness!

Worship Video: Psalm 119:105 reminds me of the song “Thy Word is a Lamp,” sung here by Michael W. Smith & Amy Grant:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CSZlIVP9u0Y
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======= Ramona:
2 Samuel 14:1-15:22
As a shepherd, there is one thing that David knew, protect the sheep. As king of Israel standing as the chief shepherd to God’s people, was David protecting the sheep of God’s pasture by bringing Absalom back to Jerusalem? Mike, I am going in the opposite direction that you have taken regarding the restoration of Absalom. And my premise is this: You cannot make peace with someone who has war in their heart I don’t care what the relationship is or with whom.
Clearly Absalom continued holding a grudge against his father (Hindsight is always 20/20), and David was operating out of his emotions and sentiment grieving for Absalom, not based on a godly or biblical principal. In the pattern of sacrificial offerings, there is a clear outline of the way to godly reconciliation/forgiveness and it is not by presenting a “Fellowship” offering first. What is offered up first is the Whole Burnt offering, and then the Sin offering, after that the Thanksgiving and Fellowship offering can then be presented. The pattern for establishing intimacy with people can be found in how God directs us to establish intimacy/restoration with Him. There is no forgiveness of sin without the shedding of blood. Nothing like that was ever initiated by Absalom. Or if it was, then the “sacrifice” was one only in act and not heartfelt.
David’s relationship with Absalom was never broken David was always his father. What was broken or what needed to be established was their fellowship. Was there really ever any fellowship, true fellowship and intimacy with his children outside of Solomon?
Yesterday I spoke of the elephant being in the room and no one acknowledging it or speaking of it. What David did was to bring the elephant back into the room and that room was probably already crowded with a lot more of them all he did was increase the size of the heard.
Internal sores/abscesses must me lanced no matter how painful the procedure. When we leave them to fester inside the body, we cause more problems, possibly death, then if they were attended to. You can’t heal a would by saying its not there it must be attended too and that was not followed. Because Absalom could gather together an army of co-conspirators, including Bathsheba’ grandfather, shows how the internal wound festered inside the body of Israel.
If the son was to be brought back then the reason why he killed and ran should have been addressed with all the pain that would bring.
If a man willfully sheds the blood of a person [and keeps the guilt of murder upon his conscience], he is fleeing to the pit (the grave) and hastening to his own destruction; let no man stop him! (Proverbs 28:17 AMP)
Grace and peace,
Ramona
======== John:
2Sam14
Mike,
Agree with Ramona.
David might have wanted to restore the relationship, and may have thought by bringing Absalom back it “was the right thing to do”, but sending the boy to his room for two years is rather odd.
I agree that Absalom’s resentment festered, because He did not believe he did anything wrong. Maybe because he had rationalized the murder of his brother in his own mind. (How many acts in our own life do we rationalize? In our own mind or to God?)
2Sam14:32b
“…Now then, I want to see the king’s face, and if I am guilty of anything, let him put me to death.”
There was never any repentance or sorrow from Absalom over his brother’s murder. He came before not “David” nor his “father”, but the “king”. He bowed before the “king” which was a formality when approaching the “king”. The “king” kissed him and that was that – no words spoken (or at least recorded), and all was supposed to be restored????.
Although different circumstances, this portrayal of relationship between David and Absalom is a far cry from the story of the prodigal son. The father was embracing and rejoicing and the son was humble and repentant.
Men with big careers often have trouble with the fatherly role. Traits that make them good leaders do not translate to the family. David consulted the Lord in so many instances, but it is never (at least I think so) recorded that David went to God about his family.
John
======= Sue:
Mike asked: “We can make our plans, but the LORD determines our steps.” Do you think this is true? We make our plans – but God determines our steps. Do you see this to be true in your own life? Have you made plans before, but then seen your steps somehow be guided in perhaps a different direction – perhaps a more godly direction?”
I have to say I can FULLY testify to this – after my husband died in 1998, and the Lord provided me with an awesome renewed relationship with Himself, I was led by incredible ‘coincidences’ along a path I could never have conceived for myself, but yet desired from the minute He planted the notion in my mind. From my experiences I can state that in my view, He provides us with the ideas that are in line with His Will for us, then we still have the choice as to whether or not to more forward into that Plan – if we are faithful in doing so, then he leads us through it, and we can move willingly. I used to think in my younger years that following God meant all sorts of dreadful things like being asked to give up my desires, or heading off to deepest darkest Africa to be a missionary, and I was actually quite fearful of that happening to the point that I often refused to really submit to His Will just in case. However, what He taught me through 2001-2003 is that His Will is perfect and so much better for me than anything I can conceive for myself, and so while I can contemplate plans and goals for my life, only those that He has ordained in His Will are going to be of value, but ultimately he will also provide me the joy in being obedient to Him. If I’d time/energy I’d have loved to share just how awesome those 2 years were for me, but suffice to say He provided for me to achieve something that nobody including myself thought remotely possible, but as I say, the most important thing for me was discovering how to truly hear His Voice and better understand what He wanted for me. I would urge everyone reading this to never fear His Will, “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” 2Tim 1:7.
Blessings to all, and thank you for your wonderful insights. I’m more often a ‘lurker’ at times, but that’s only because typing is painful for me, and I wait until I really have something I want to share, before joining you all :)).
Romayne
====== Anka:
consequences of sin…David though forgiven had to bear painful consequences of his sins…it makes me wonder sometimes when he go through what we sometimes call wilderness experience,challenges…etc…could it not simply be that we’re getting what we had sowed in the past?True God turns out everything for our good if we love him…but sometimes suffering makes us bitter and at war with God forgetting who the real enemy is.
“Simon Peter and another disciple were following Jesus. Because this disciple was known to the high priest, he went with Jesus into the high priest’s courtyard, 16but Peter had to wait outside at the door.”
I can’t help thinking…(Bob Deffingbaugh thinks this disciple is John as do a few other commentaries I read)this disciple if known to the high priest then it must have been common knowledge that he was a follower of Jesus who followed to the end inspite of the trouble ahead.He didn’t seek to save his life,he just followed.He may have not understood why his teacher had to go through this but in his heart the vow”for better for worse”was engraved.In the gospel of John,love is often mentioned…this must have been a man after Jesus heart….
God bless you all
Anka
====== Jo Anne:
Regarding the Absalom/David incident…I see a manipulated reconciliation by Joab. Then another by Absalom with Joab. I am learning that nothing good happens from manipulating people or circumstances to get a desired response. Never happens. It always falls apart.
Jo Anne
====== Carol:
Wow, these passages really rung true for me today as well as the commentary that followed…I am burying my father this afternoon…lots of pain between family…I’ve cut myself off from them because I have been “stung” so many times…I need to continue praying for Gods infinite wisdom and direction to complete the healing process and find closure for the situation with my family that causes me such great pain.
Thank you for what you do…how you write and take the time to do God’s work…
Blessings – Carol
====== Dottie:
I love what this is talking about! I believe that God, also stands for Good Orderly Direction! He has been the one who guides my steps daily! I can’t even begin to think about how many times I have tried to go one direction and before I realized it, I was in an entirrely different place! I trust Him explicitly and if He changes my direction, I humbly and gladly follow His lead. Things go much smoother and things turn our so much better.
I have been betrayed in the past and cut right through the heart! I was so devastated when my husband of 11 years suddenly left with another woman after we had been serving God and our church all that time. I cried out to God because I didn’t know where to turn, who to talk too, or what to do. The funny thing that happened is He told me to wait upon Him, tust in Him, and rest in Him. I felt such a peace come over me. Two weeks later, about; He showed me some of the why of what had happened. To make a long story short, God revealed many things to me my husband was doing and God didn’t want me to be joined with him in his sin. Now I am more happy then I have ever been and my life is blessed. I am still single and God is my husband! I lack nothing in my life. I am satisfied.
Dottie
====== Terriann:
Mike and Ramona make good points, here’s one more thing to throw into the mix. Amnon was David’s first born and obvious heir. Ramona is right, his sin should have been dealt with and wasn’t, and that was David’s fault. The second born was Chilaeb but since he is never mentioned after his birth he probably didn’t live long or maybe something else disqualified him taking the throne. Next in line is Absalom and he wants to be king. He is vain and arrogant. He thinks he can do a better job than his father but I think David knew better. When it came to obvious enemies like Goliath, David was bold and decisive but the subtle enemies from within are harder to deal with. Mike and Ramona both pointed out the difficulty of separating emotion from the right action to take. What SHOULD David have done? That’s a difficult question, especially since we don’t know all that was said between father and son. Maybe David told Absalom, “You’re welcome here but the throne is going to Solomon.” Who knows? I think the bottom line here, though, is that David is reaping what he sowed when he had Uriah killed.
Teriann
====== Joyce:
I don’t know who is right on this, but I prefer to take away from this reading that David was acting out of grace and love. I have observed from reading through the bible, that many of the heirs to the throne are spoiled brats, and many become terrible kings. David had been a lowly shepherd, but he became a great king, a “man after God’s own heart.”
Also, Absalom was extraordinarily handsome, which probably added to his elevated opinion of himself, and the people falling for whatever scheme he proposed. This is indeed a very sad story.
Joyce
====== David:
We can ask a simple question. Is this David’s son? How could his son turn out so bad. When we realize that it is this same David who committed adultery and murder, we can understand a bit why his son became such a villain. I wonder how old Absalom was when his father was the villain and apparently got away with it too.
Moral of the story is that we should be good examples to our children and when we are not, tell them we were wrong.
David
====== Lizzy:
Hi Mike!
You asked if we think David was correct to let Absalom return to Jerusalem.
I have a very similar situation with a grown child, and I am convinced David did not do the right thing.
The commentary that you linked to at Bible.org is very helpful. It includes these paragraphs:
Absalom was a murderer and chose political asylum in Geshur with his grandfather. David was not wrong to still love this son and yearn to see him. But it would not have been right for David to pardon him so he could return. It would not even have been right to visit him in Geshur.
I know many parents who so desperately yearn for a relationship with their children that they refuse to discipline them. And when they have rebelled, they are so eager to get them back they welcome their children with open arms, when there has been no repentance, and thus there can be no real reconciliation. The same is true in the church. If there is to be true unity in the church, genuine fellowship among the saints, then there must be rebuke, discipline, and repentance before there can be reconciliation and reunion.
Lizzy
====== Rob:
It’s hard to know what is the right thing to do in any given situation and things do change. I had a dear friend who treated me very poorly. She contacted me and I was glad to get the email and I wanted to respond but I decided to pray first. I got a clear no. I wish her well and I miss her but I’ve decided to go with the answer to my prayer. Maybe next year or the year after will be different. Peace and love to all.
Rob
====== Joyce:
Mike and everyone,
Mike, thank you for pointing out Psalm 119:105
“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” (Amplified Bible)
Up until last year, my daily devotion was reading devotional materials (a bible verse and a passage/story relating to that verse).
Beginning of this year, by God’s grace i found this blog, and by God’s grace have been able to follow until now. What a blessing! What a difference to systematically read God’s Word each day, spend time understanding it, and see how the Old and New Testament passages correspond to each other.
Thank you Mike and everyone here!
The following is from Barnes’ Notes on the Bible on Psalm 119:105 ~
Thy word is a lamp unto my feet –
The Hebrew word means a light, lamp, candle.
The word of God is like a torch or lamp to man in a dark night. It shows him the way, prevents his stumbling over obstacles, or failing down cliffs, or wandering off into paths which would lead into danger, or would turn him away altogether from the path to life.
“Because of that experience, we have even greater confidence in the message proclaimed by the prophets. You must pay close attention to what they wrote, for their words are like a lamp shining in a dark place—until the Day dawns, and Christ the Morning Star shines in your hearts.” (2 Peter 1:19 NLT)
And a light unto my path –
It is a light which shines on the road that a man treads, that he may see any danger which may be in his path. He will clearly see the path. He will be able to mark the road in which he ought to go, and to avoid all those by-paths which would lead him astray. He will see where those by-roads turn off from the main path. He will see any obstruction which may lie in his path; any cliff which may be near.
Man needs such a guide, and the Bible is such a guide.
“How can a young person stay pure? By obeying your word.” (Psalm 119:9 NLT)
May God continue to use this blog to encourage believers’ faith, and to put
faith seeds in non-believers’ hearts!
God bless!
Joyce
====== Jane:
I don’t think people realize the ramifications of betrayal especially in a family! I know Jesus talks about end times where fsmily will turn against one another . Matthew 10:34:-36. “Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace but a sword . For I have to turn a man against his father a daughter against her mother a DIL against her MIL . A mans enemies will be the own members of his own household .”
But beware!!! Paul says in I Timothy 5:8. If anyone does not provide for his family and especially his immediate family he has denied the faith and is worse than a unbeliever” so the repercussions are do we want to honor God with honoring family and bring peace or be on Gods opposing side and face Gods judgement?
Jane
====== Pat:
I think the Scripture in Samuel 1:14 is beautiful and comforting. “All of us must die eventually. Our lives are like water spilled out on the ground, which cannot be gathered up again. But God does not just sweep life away; instead He devises ways to bring us back when we have been separated from Him.” Thank you Jesus for loving me. Thank you Jesus for devising ways to bring me back to you when I’m heading down the wrong path. Thank you Jesus. Thank you Father, Son, and Holy Spirit who are all one and the same.
Pat
====== Dee:
It is sad to see both betrayals in the passages of 2nd Samuel and John 18. David loves his son even though he is evil and has it out for his brothers and father. Judas is greedy after money and willing to betray the one true friend he ever had: Jesus. Sad
Psalm 119:105 thy word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto thy path. Beautiful. One of the best alltimr bible verses..we learn alot by our ancestors and from experience. Thankful for the bible and it’s examples to be our guide
We do make plans but God directs our path
Dee
======= John:
John 18
Random notes:
1)David took the same path to Mount of Olives (2Sam15) – David betrayed by his counselor (friend – Ahithophel), takes the same path that Jesus did and went up to the Mount of Olives with his faithful band.
2) Jesus crossed the Kidron valley probably passing by the Kidron brook. This is the brook where the runoff of blood from temple sacrifices was directed. It was Passover week, and the brook was probably already red with some of the prepatory sacrifices to Passover. I wonder what Jesus thought as he passed the red (bloody) waters?
3) “Gethsemane” means “olive press”. Saw a film on Ancient Israel and the “press” has two parts. One is a large wheel like stone that is rolled over the olives in a circular basin to squeeze out juices. The second is a large conical stone that takes several men to place on the large bag of olives. The sheer weight of the stome pressed down on the olives, and the last bit of juices were squeezed out to flow into a cistern. Sounds a lot like the pressure on Jesus while He was in the Garden.
4) Jesus’ supreme power – I disagree with bob Deffingbaugh on the result of Jesus saying “I AM”. It is an exagerration, but Bob makes it seem like a “Three Stooges” pratfall kind of thing. I prefer John Macarhtur’s comments:
“Jesus wanted us to know Judas was there to show that Judas had no power. All Jesus had to do was say His name and they all went down. The other Gospels dwell on Jesus’ agony — on His knees on the ground in anguish. But not in John’s Gospel. Jesus is standing and the whole Roman army is on the ground.”….
“…An interesting Bible study is the study of the concept of the word of His power. God created the world by His word, and He said, “Let there be light…” (Gen. 1:3a). And when Christ comes in judgment at the end of the age, the Bible says, “And out of His mouth goeth a sharp sword…” (Rev. 19:15a). It is the word of God that is powerful; it is the word of God that will judge and condemn men; and it is the word of God that is incisive. Jesus Christ is coming to judge (Mt. 13:37-43, 47-50; Ac. 10:42- 43; 17:30-31). So the Bible says He will judge by the word out of His mouth. And the mob tasted just a sample of His judgment power and they fell helpless at His feet. John is showing us that Jesus was no victim. This was the majestic Son of God displaying power.”
I also like this thought process:
“Jesus was born as a humble baby, yet heralded by angels. He was laid in a manger, yet announced by a star. He submitted to baptism, then heard the Divine voice of approval. He slept when He was exhausted, but awoke to calm the storm. Jesus wept at a grave, then called the dead to life. He submits to arresting troops, then declares His majesty and knocks them over. Jesus died on a cross, but in it He overcame sin and death and Satan.” – David Guzik
No wonder the large crowd was willing to let the disciples go as Jesus requested. They were probably greatly relieved that this person was willingly going to go with them back to Annas.
John
======= John:
John 18 (cont)
Random notes (cont)
5) Annas was the High priest from 6 AD to 15 AD. Ironic that he was High Priest when Jesus came to the temple, as a youth, and discussed scripture with the Priests. Do you think Annas came by the group during those three days, and had a different feeling toward Jesus?
“Annas was so powerful that when he was removed from office, seven of his successors were relatives: Five were his sons, one was his grandson, and Caiaphas was his son- in-law. So he may not have been high priest officially, but he was running the show.”
“Now, in order to be high priest, all that one had to do was kneel on the ground and kiss Rome’s hem, and come up with a lot of money. The office was bought….”
“…Evidently Annas was the biggest briber because he had the most money. He earned his money by being in charge of the Temple concessions. When he was removed from office in A.D. 15, he took control of the concessions in the Temple. Annas was the biggest cog in the ecclesiastical machine of Judaism. He was immensely rich and consequently could buy his way into all the important offices. So he remained the power behind the scene.”
“The Talmud says of Annas: “Woe to the house of Annas! Woe to their serpent’s hiss! They are High Priests; their sons are keepers of the treasury; their sons-in-law are guardians of the Temple; and their servants beat the people with staves.” – all quotes by John Macarthur
No wonder Annas was anxious to remove Jesus from the scene – Jesus had already disrupted his business in Temple at least once (probably twice).
6) Prophecy fulfilled??? (This I just ran across)
John 18:22
“When Jesus said this, one of the officials nearby struck him in the face. “Is this the way you answer the high priest?” he demanded.” NIV
“Here is a typical henchman looking for a promotion from Annas. Now, the Greek word for “struck…with the palm of his hand,” is “rhapisma”, and can also be translated, “struck with a stick.” Since it is evident that the Temple police carried sticks or clubs, it is more likely that he hit Jesus across the side of His face with a club. Again, this was not only unkind and ruthless, but illegal. Never was it legal for someone to strike a prisoner.” – John Macarthur – ibid
Strong’s lexicon has “rhapisma” as “a blow with a rod or staff or a scourge”
In Micah 5:1 it says:
Marshal your troops, O city of troops,
for a siege is laid against us.
They will strike Israel’s ruler
on the cheek with a rod.
While this was symbolically filled in every siege of Jerusalem. Perhaps it is literally fulfilled here with the True King and Lord of Israel.
Perhaps it is a stretch, but I thought I would throw it out there. the siege is the strangling of the city by the officials of the temple???? Like I said – it might be a stretch.
John
===== Reuben:
Awesome choice for worship video – this song helped light my path when I was a young Christian in the early 80s.
Reuben



































































David
Nathan gives him a parable about the rich man and the poor man.
Joab sends the woman from Tekoa to give him a parable about her son.
I would think it would be humiliating for David when he recognized himself in those scenarios, particularly when he was so indignant in both cases about people he did not know, but had to acknowledge his own culpability.
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The MacArthur Study Bible indicates Ahithophel (Bathsheba’s grandfather) instigated Absalom’s rebellion and that his counsel to David was like “an oracle of God.”
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I cannot help but think Absalom felt very entitled, much like a middle child in a family who was “not the first and not the last,” so he felt overlooked because of his constellation in the family.
Something about Absalom bowing to David, his father, the king…was that a form of respect, or was it required, or was he grateful to finally have an audience with David, who then kissed him. We are not told if this was a kiss that expressed forgiveness, greeting, and we can really only speculate as to the significance.
Add to that, Absalom was manipulative (got what he wanted by strong-arming Joab into coming to see him), extremely handsome, and obviously people saw him as having “kingly attributes,” much as Saul was viewed.
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John and Ramona, I think the “jury is still out” with regard to Absalom’s lack of repentance. David clearly was an overly permissive parent.
Sue
====== Romayne: